The mind itself is a potent instrument for change, the only one there is.
All change must take place in the mind first,
for all action is a result of thought and the resultant impulse or motivation.
Love does not come and go.
It is not arbitrarily given and then withdrawn.
Such is not Love, but exchange, a bargain made between separate bodies in which each tries to get much and give little.
Do not make of Love a bargain based on maintaining belief in separation.